I deleted the first part of this post because it was disjointed and stressed.
All I can say is that I am not the only caretaker of an elderly parent who has had evil thoughts.
I'm tired to the bone...even after a two-week vacation.
I love my mom, but it's hard.
The good news.
We moved mom back to her old apartment.
The fire back to the frying pan.
Still hot, still issues, but better than the fire.